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Welcome to Go Beyond Talk Therapy
Phil DeLuca, MSW, LCSW
Relationship coach and author
People usually come to see me when something just isn’t working anymore. Maybe conversations keep turning into arguments. Maybe there’s distance, frustration, or things that never seem to get resolved. Or maybe life just feels heavy and hard to manage emotionally. Whatever brings you in, my job is to help you slow things down, understand what’s really happening, and figure out a better way forward, especially in how you relate to the people who matter most.
I’ve been doing this work for over 45 years, and I’ve sat with thousands of people through real struggles, real conflict, and real change. That experience matters, not as theory, but as something lived and learned over time. In our sessions, you won’t get judgment or pressure. You’ll get honest conversation, practical guidance, and steady support while you work through what’s difficult.
Counseling Services
Some couples come in because they keep having the same fight over and over. Others just feel disconnected and want to find their way back to each other. Individuals often come in feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure what to do next. Wherever you’re starting from, we work together to understand the patterns that aren’t helping and to build ones that do.
I offer sessions for individuals and couples, both online and in person. You can choose what feels most comfortable for you.
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I take most major insurance as well as self pay. I offer both video and in office counseling.
Services We’re Offering
Solution-Focused Therapy for People
Who Need Real Support
Reconnect Before It’s Too Late
Meet Phil DeLuca, the UnTalk™ Therapist, a relationship expert with a refreshingly different approach. His method focuses on building your strengths, enhancing communication, and guiding you step-by-step toward lasting, healthy change.
Reconnect and Heal
In this powerful six-part video series, experienced marriage therapist Phil DeLuca teaches you how to defuse arguments before they escalate. These evidence-based tools are simple, effective, and designed for immediate use. Learn how to shift from conflict to connection starting today.
Therapy for Men
Struggling to find someone who truly gets what you're going through? This therapy is designed specifically for men by men to help you face the pressures of life, work, relationships, and personal growth head-on. It about equipping you with tools to perform , manage stress, and take back control.
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How to Break the Pursuer-Distancer Pattern
Are you feeling distanced from your partner? Your relationship can get better. Contact Phil DeLuca today. Is your partner pulling away? The
Stop Your Fighting Tonight! 📽 Video Course
FREE webinar from expert marriage therapist, Phil DeLuca, MSW, LCSW This 6-video series presents evidence-based techniques you can use TODAY to
Relationship Rescue
Are chronic arguments destroying your relationship? Is your health suffering from all the stress and conflict? Is your partner uncooperative?
why choose us
Relationships, Couples, & Family Issues.
I focus on helping you build stronger, healthier connections
I can help you with: communication, affairs and affair recovery, separation/divorce
adjustment/resolution, marital/relationship counseling, codependency/pursuit and
distance, domestic violence, pre-marital counseling, dating issues, conflict and anger
resolution, and parenting and step-parenting issues. I also wrote a book and worked
with relationships that involved an uncooperative partner:
How to encourage their cooperation, how to inspire them to seek help, or join you in counseling.
our testimonials
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Your story matters. Share it with us in a safe, supportive space. Let’s begin together.
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I help people build healthier, more meaningful connections. I work with:
- Married couples
- Individuals and couples who are dating
- Seniors
- Men’s issues
- Substance abuse
- Pornography addiction
- Stress reduction
- Codependency
- Narcissicism
- Family therapy
- Relationship issues
- Post affair recovery
- Life/work adjustment
- Health coaching
- Domestic violence
- And many more issues
I support individuals navigating life after divorce, a challenging yet hopeful time for growth and renewal. In a warm, collaborative space, I help clients rebuild with confidence and clarity. Sessions are available both in-office and online to meet your comfort and convenience.
Check out Phil's book
The Solo Partner: Repairing Your Relationship On Your Own
The Solo Partner is the only book available that focuses entirely on relationships where one partner refuses to engage in the healing process. This includes situations where they deny problems exist, blame the other person entirely, or make empty promises to
change but never follow through. If this sounds familiar, then this book was written with you in mind. It offers more than understanding; it introduces a new approach that differs from traditional therapy. This method can still be effective even when only one partner is engaged, especially when conventional talk therapy has failed to bring meaningful or lasting results.
Check out Phil's book
