Book

This book will be expose on the “Express Yourself” and “Talk It Through” communication models that have the the predominant approach to resolving conflict and communicating since the 1970’s. There has never been any science to support these approaches. Rather they just caught on from the “let it all hang out’
era of Woodstock.

My experience early on in my career showed that did not work as promised. Rather, appeared to generate more not less conflict. So I spent the next 40 years of my career trying to figure out why they don’t work and what would work to reduce conflict through effective communication skills. Integrating the latest discoveries in mind-body science of the last 10 years, I was able to determine why conventional communication models did not work and what would, and does, work.

This book is both an expose and a workbook on an alternative communication approach based on that science that I have clinically perfected over many years. It shows why talking through problems when people are upset is the worst possible way to resolve conflict. This approach is both easy to grasp, simple to implement, brings quick results and in many cases can be used without the other partner’s cooperation. In my experience a lot of situations are fixable using this approach that conventional communication models are only making worse.